Barbie Comedian - A Good Laugh!

Use Your Sexual Energy To Bring You Wealth!

Money will flow once you know how to attract it with your sexual energy.  Pick up this program from the creators of Sexy Challenges and learn how powerful your sexual energy can be.

INVEST WITH SEX

Sexy Ways To Put Food On Your Plate

This wonderful video shows you how by changing the presentation of your food your sex life might just improve.  

Now I am a little hungry.  

Drop me a Line! (Part 5 of 8 - Ways We Communicate with our Lover)

Remember to be discreet with your emails!

Who know who might be looking over your shoulder.

Part 5 of 8

 Email – This is not that different than texting
except that this is an opportunity to write a good deal more.  In fact, this can replace the sweet
handwritten love letter of a couple of decades ago.  We can add fancy artwork or pictures to our
emails.  We can use different colors and
fonts.  Many of us receive our email on
our phones too – so we have quick and easy access to each other’s messages. 

Janelle Alex, Ph.D. Copyright 2011

http://www.sexychallenges.com

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8 Dirty Little Secrets to Keep The Spark Alive

Dirty Little Secrets That Will Keep The Spark Alive

Everybody knows that after the “honeymoon” phase is over that the mundane sets in.  It may take you a few months or a few years, but eventually everyday life takes hold and for almost every couple the excitement they experienced in the beginning fades to a dull ho-hum rut. 

Yet, there are a few dirty little secrets that can keep the spark alive.  Why are these secrets dirty?  Well, they have been used over and over by millions of couples to get through the tough times, to languish together in the easier times, to keep their relationship charged in the mediocre times.  Yep…after all that use these secrets have a little dirt on them.  So, let’s dig in.

1.     Communicate!  Oh Boy!  That one seems obvious doesn’t it, but it is true!  If you don’t talk, text, or physically communicate what you want, don’t want, like and don’t like, you are going to experience more arguments and, on top of that, you will grow apart.  Oh crap!! 

2.    Be courageous.  Being in a long-term relationship is one of the scariest and hardest things you could ever do.  You have to be brave enough to face the deepest parts of yourself and of your lover.  Because the longer you are together – the more likely those parts will show up.  Mind you, this is also a wonderful opportunity to grow within a safe and trusting space.

3.    Have consistency.  Be honest – always.  Be yourself.  We all have different moods, but do your best to be who you truly are with your partner always.  Having no idea what to expect from your sweetheart from day-to-day will cause a lot of stress and perhaps, eventually, a break in your relationship.

4.    Make lots of love!  The spark doesn’t have to fade in this area either if you are willing to find new things for the two of you to try.  Ah, a great reason to have Sexy Challenges in your life!  And, the more often you make love the more often the body continues to want to.  It is like a muscle after all…use it or lose it!

5.    Continue growing (separately and together).  Learning new things as a couple is definitely a key to keep spice in your love life.  This will help keep boredom at bay.  But, don’t forget to learn new things individually as well.  Then you can come home and share about your new experiences, adventures, knowledge with your sweetheart.   

6.    Be clear about what you want. You need to know what you want in your life and out of your relationship.  If you don’t really have a clue, then how can you expect to find happiness and maintain it?  For that matter, if your partner doesn’t know what you want, how can he/she be expected to share in things that bring your happiness?

7.    Learn from others…rinse and repeat!  Learn from experts about different things.  How did they stay together?  What have they learned in their studies?  What do they know?  What does ancient history show?  How are people managing in today’s society?  But, remember to always take that information, rinse it off…getting rid of the stuff that doesn’t fit the two of you, then, and only then, repeat the parts that make sense to you.

8.    Be committed.  Make a promise not only to yourself, but to your beloved to do everything you can to make your relationship work and to keep it fresh and filled with sparks.

Janelle Alex, Ph.D. – Co-Founder of Sexy Challenges

Copyright 2013  

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Sexy Challenges On a Sexy Device!

Click the Kindle Fire above to see how sexy it can become.  

Sexy Challenges are an amazing product!  However, there are many great ways to get them.  The very first device Sexy Challenges were ever available on were the original Kindle from Amazon.  Now things have evolved and the Kindle Fire is one of our favorite choices to house Sexy Challenges.  While we love our iPad we also love the cost and focus the Kindle Fire has on books and media.  So next time you think sexy don't forget about Sexy Challenges on the Kindle Fire.  

Orgasms with Spirit

Check this out....Hay House is sponsoring an online course, Orgasm with Spirit.

This Live Online Course incorporates all the most popular segments of Barbara's internationally acclaimed in-person workshops. The core of Barbara's work is the connection between sexuality and spirituality. In this 4-week workshop, you'll learn techniques that will add sensuality to your spirituality and sacredness to your sex life. You'll learn the importance of ecstatic experiences and practice simple, powerful techniques that will increase your desire, expand your orgasms, reignite your relationships, and bring sensuality and pleasure into every aspect of your life. The cornerstone of this class is the connection between breath and erotic energy. You'll even get a chance to experience one of the most effective ways to connect spirit and sex-a breath an energy orgasm-literally, an orgasm with spirit.

Check it out now! 

Goat...Moose...and Sexy Challenges ??

Gooat?  What about Moooose?

Have you gone on vacation lately?  Have you been disturbed by your office or were you able to enjoy your days pleasantly with no interruptions?  Here is a trick...head up high into the mountains...no cell service there!  :)  Moooooose!  Yes, we saw a number of these majestic animals (and a baby) while we were in Rocky Mountain National Park last week.  Beautiful! 

A beautiful and much needed time with each other and our kiddos.  We only worked a little while there...we did a podcast for you pretty near to where we saw the moose.  Ah, we couldn't leave you out of our adventure - now could we?

Locked Up in Wyoming! A Little Play During Vacation Days!

Oh no!  Rob got himself locked up right after we enter Wyoming last week!  What to do? What to do?  Well, our youngest son was able to escape through the hole in the cell wall just over Rob's right shoulder...there was a slide for little guys :)  Daddy/Rob, was left to find his own means of escape.  

Ah, ha!  The keys :)

Shoo....Rob escaped and made it to safety.

Well, crap.  Momma/Janelle and our little guy got locked up in Cheyenne.  They even got thrown in with a jailbird...if you look in the back corner.  

Wait!  Janelle has an idea....if Boeg will just climb under the cell door, he will be able to help them escape and make it back to the safety of home.  Momma hugs him and says, "You can do it son!"

Shoo!!  The Alex family is out of trouble and safe and sound....watch out for those crazy jails cells at the visitor's center when you enter Wyoming and at the Cheyenne Gunslings ;) 

In all honesty, we had a blast during our vacation day trips!

Jim Morrison On Sex

Jim Morrison and his Lover Pamela Courson

Sex is full of lies. The body tries to tell the truth. But, it's usually too battered with rules to be heard, and bound with pretenses so it can hardly move. We cripple ourselves with lies.
Jim Morrison 

Fact for Doors Fans: The above book is what inspired the name of the band.  Click it to see more on this amazing book by Aldous Huxley

Text Me, Sexy! (Ways We Communicate 4 of 8)

Part 4 of 8

 Texting – Modern technology has changed the way
we communicate with family, friends and yes, even our partners.  It is important to consider whether or not we
use texting to our benefit.  Texting a
loving or even sexy message during the day to our lover can be sweet and
fun.  Sending a text to “freaking stop
and get milk” with no other message can seem rude and thoughtless.  Unless we use all caps or exclamation points
or add words or symbols of love texting remains flat with no emotion.  We also must be aware of responding to
someone else’s text while we are supposed to be focused on our partner – such
as while having dinner together.  

Janelle Alex, Ph.D. Copyright 2011

http://www.sexychallenges.com

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Make Today a Day of Freedom - No Matter the Date!

Fighting has a profound impact on your children.  It doesn't matter if your arguing is a series of small spats with nasty and snide comments or if you experience physical fights.  The affects are devastating on all concerned in the end.  Remember to honor yourself, your children and each other.  And, if you are in a situation that you cannot see improving, you may need to pack up yourself and your kiddos and get out.  If that is that case, it is okay.  No one can tell you whether you should stay or leave...only you know deep down what you need to do.

So, even though today is Independence Day in the United States...make any day your independence day.  We ALL deserve safety and freedom!

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence - http://www.ncadv.org

Use Exercise Balls in Your Sex Life Too!

Have you been wanting to try new positions in your love making? Have you gotten all the books with the positions that you have to be a gymnast to get into. Well, here is a nice little idea that uses an exercise ball. Yes, you heard me right. You know that piece of gym equipment that sits in your corner. You might not think of it as a sexual enhancer, but really think about it for a second. The ball gives you lots of cushion, it bounces with your weight, and dang it is just fun! Believe it or not you can get a book on how to use your exercise ball during sex. Not only does it show you positions, but it also shows you the muscle groups you will be using during each position. So now you can have sex and work on those problem areas at the same time. All joking aside I think this is a wonderful idea. An exercise ball is not intimidating like some sex enhancers and like I said earlier it is fun. 

You can go to the Sexy-Balls website to learn more by clicking the title of this post. Watch the sexy balls video below.

Want the Photographer/Model Fantasy? Well You Need The Right Camera

Many people have a fantasy or enjoy taking racy or naked pictures of each other.  This can be quite a turn on for the both of you.  It can fall into the fantasy role play version of intimacy as one of you is the famous photographer and the other is the more than willing subject.  In the new digital age of photograph this is even easier as you don't have to send your pictures out to get developed.  Since this is such a great and fun thing to share with you lover, you should have the best tools to get the job done. Below are my top 5 cameras for use in this manner.



Click on the each Camera below to get the lowdown on each one.  

1.

The first camera is the Nikon D3200.  It is the highest priced camera of my picks but is will worth the money if you have it to spend.  Lots of features that you would expect from the price.

2.

My second choice and a little less pricy is the Cannon Digital Rebel T3 almost as many features as the Nikon D3200 but with a little less resolution but still a great buy.



3.


Okay this might be the one for you if you want more action.  The Nikon Coolpix AW1100 is not only a great camera but it is also WATERPROOF.  So if you want to get those steamy shower pictures this is the camera for you.



4.

This little Nikon Coolpix S6200 is easy to carry around and easy on the budget, while still delivering wonderful photos.



5.

Our last entry are for those of you on a limit budget.  This camera is the most economical of the bunch but still packs the punch to make your hot photos even hotter.



Happy Shooting.

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Find the Key to Your Heart & Soul

We can't turn back time and undo the things that we have done or that have been done to us.  But, if we lock the door to our heart and to our soul and throw away the key, we can't continue growing either.

Pick up your key, insert it into the lock, turn it, and slowly and gently open the door.  

Reach out your hand to the world, the future that you have yet to hold.  

If need be, simply peek out the door.  When you are ready take those first few steps and see just what possibilities, what opportunities are waiting for you.

Just opening the door will allow fresh air to flow into your heart and soul.  

Is it frightening?  To some - very much so.

Is it worth it?  YES!

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