Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Love Is In The Signs

Signs of Love in the Air

She loves me, She loves me not, she loves me, she loves me not ...
I believe that many people (including me) have this problem sometime in their lives. You like someone, to the extend that you want to get into a serious relationship with him/her. BUT, on the other hand, you are afraid that confessing your love might ruin even the chance of being friends.
Well, worry no more. Because statistics have shown that when someone is romantically attracted to you, they unknowingly give out certain signals. All you need to do is to identify these signals of love!
Body Language and Other Signals That Could Mean Love
Sometimes being able to tell if someone is interested in you is easier than you may think. If you know the signs to look for you can learn if that guy or girl is focusing on you or simply watching the traffic drive by. One of the best things to watch is the person's body language and you can discover if they are interested in you...or just your best friend.
Does their body language exhibit the telltale signs that give their thoughts away? Could this person be in love with you? Look for the signs that say it all. If they are finding you fascinating they will move in closer when they talk with you or walk with you. You will notice that they look at you when they talk and they focus on your face, especially your eyes. They will lean toward you during conversation. They will also unknowingly touch their face, particularly their lips. Women will play with a lock of their hair if a person has piqued her interest.
If a woman has her legs crossed and has one shoe dangling on her toes you have attracted her interest. Women who play with their straws at dinner also find their companions interesting.If a woman has her lips parted or uses her tongue to moisten her lips she is signaling an attraction to her partner. While some people learn to use body language and body signals deliberately, most of these actions occur spontaneously and we do not control them.
Both sexes will reach during conversation to touch the other person's arm or hand. The eyes are a dead giveaway to their thoughts though and that is why prolonged contact occurs between two people who are interested in each other. If the chemistry is there the sparks can fly and the eyes are very aware. Did you realize that pupils will dilate when someone is attracted to another person? This is a great way to know for sure if the person is interested in you, because this is a body response that no one can control.
There are other tell tale signs that can show you that someone loves you. They want to please you and they will find special things to do to show you this. If someone is bringing you flowers, candies or other items it is always flattering and appreciated, but people who really care about you will add unique touches. They may only bring you one flower, but it will be one they picked just for you, or it will be your favorite flower. If they bring you candy, it may be some that they prepared themselves. Whatever gift they bring, no matter how small, will usually have more significance or personal meaning than many of the gifts from other people.
People who are in love think about their loved one often and will send them messages or call them frequently. If the person you are interested in never responds to your calls until days later, you might want to rethink the relationship. Part of being in love means wanting to spend time together and wanting to make sure that the other person is okay. If the person you are interested in is constantly wanting you to lose weight, change your way of dressing, color your hair, and change your group of might want to rethink the relationship. People in love are willing to overlook flaws and they never try to make you over into their "ideal person".
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Friday, February 21, 2014

Domestic Violence Not Sexy At All

Domestic violence is a disturbing and sadding topic.  Most people don’t know why it happens or how to approach it.  One wonders why someone could treat another in such a horrific way or even why someone would stay with a partner that treats them that way.  
The 5 star rated book Understanding Domestic Violence and Abuse by Kelina Cowell, explains in detail the statistics, causes and effects of domestic abuse and the impact that it has on it's victims. 
The sad fact is that anyone can become a victim of domestic abuse.  Each of us has been touched by it in some way, whether we know of someone or have been a victim ourselves.  It comes in many different forms.  Psychological, physical, sexual, financial, emotional, and these are only naming a few. The aim is to gain power and control and the impact is devastating. 
As listed within these powerful pages some victims will experience poor general health, mental heath issues, feelings of worthlessness, helplessness, self-loathing or apathy.  This makes the road to freedom extremely challenging and to many seem impossible.
The statistics are breathtaking.  1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men will experience domestic violence in their lifetime.  Now think about how many of those victims don’t report the abuse and live in fear and pain for years. How many children are witnesses to this?  It’s heartbreaking. 
Understanding Domestic Violence and Abuse is eye opening.  It is full of facts, history, and helps the reader understand the reasoning and how to break the cycle. 
If you know someone who is in an abusive relationship this book will give you the knowledge to help them break free.

Thursday, February 20, 2014

Sexy Warm Up Dances The New Rave

Okay Sexy Challenges approves of this warm up that Kate Hansen has made famous during the Olympics.  Maybe couples should try this to warm up before sexual activity.  

Monday, February 17, 2014

Art Is Love And Love Is Art

Many state that a great relationship is just like a great work of art.  You have to put your heart and soul into both to get a wonderful finished product.  When you can mix all these wonderful things you picture gets better and better just like your relationship.  Think about the art work you enjoy, and how does it mirror your relationship?

Friday, February 14, 2014

Happy Valentines Day!

A big kiss goes out to my wonderful partner/wife.  She gives me so much joy and power.  

Valentines Day would not be the same without you, my beloved. 

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

The Thrill is Back

The Guru Of Getting It On is brining the power back to anticipation.  In our have it now society it is good at times to take a step back and enjoy the anticipation.  This practice will have you jumping out of your shoes with excitement.

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

The Best Sexy Challenge For Valentines Day

Sexy Challenges is brining you a way to communicate with your lover like never before.  With the aid of a simple heart shaped box, see how you can start a tradition in your relationship that will get you two closer then ever.  

Also available for the kindle and nook.  

Sunday, February 2, 2014

Dealing w/Spouse's Sex Addiction?

Before the Dust Settles: 

8 Mistakes to Avoid Immediately After Discovering 

Your Partner's Sex Addiction

As of today (2/2/14) this book is FREE for the Kindle, but only for another day or so!

After making the discovery of your spouse's sex addiction, life as you once knew it is over. While you are trying to comprehend the trauma of discovering your partner's betrayals, you risk making serious mistakes that can negatively impact you now and well into the future. This book outlines 8 of the most common mistakes that many people make immediately following the discovery of their partner's secret life of betrayal. Here, you will learn why NOT to make these mistakes that may potentially create lasting damage to your emotional well-being as you try to pick up the pieces of your life and move forward.

This blog post was sponsored by Margaret Stone - 

Sex It Up Valentine!

February 14th is a day of romance, when love is in the air. We celebrate it with the exchange of candy, flowers, cards and gifts between lovers and friends. What better time for love making than this universal day of love?
It's the best kind of gift really, when you think about it. Most men would prefer it, and will never exchange it. You don't have to spend time shopping and you don't have to gift wrap it, except with some pretty panties, of course. With the money you save on his gift, you can get yourself something nice.
However, it's important to make your gift special for your true love. Get rid of all the distractions, maybe get a baby sitter, put the dogs out for a while, and toss the cat off the bed. Don't check your email and be sure to turn off your cell phones.
Put on some nice music and light some candles to create a little ambiance. Devote yourself totally to your mate and don't allow anything to come between the two of you. Live completely in the minute when it comes to love making. Try not to let your mind wander to day-to-day tasks or worries over finances or family.
Allow love to be the center of attention and watch how delighted your lover will be. Make this a Valentine's Day that he will remember for many years to come. It certainly won't be a gift that sits in the closet, never to be worn.
Although men typically have a stronger sex drive than women, lovemaking has many benefits for women too. In addition to burning about 70 calories per session, sex alleviates stress and promotes sleep.
Best of all, making love to your partner builds trust and a deeper understanding of each other, both of which are essential in a healthy relationship.
Karen Ficarelli is the founder and CEO of, a diet, exercise program and women's fitness blog, developed especially for women. A mother of three, Karen knows how hard it is to fit everything into a busy schedule. A fitness author, personal trainer, Pilate's instructor, sports nutritionist, fitness model, wife and mom, Karen is passionate about helping other women reach their fitness goals.

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