Saturday, November 30, 2013

Online Dating Across the Globe -- Some Say Santa Even Did It

We recently heard that Santa claims he met Mrs. Clause through Internet dating.

He just hopped into his sleigh, sped into the future, opened his laptop, made a romantic wish list and ta da! He found the perfect happy, cookie baking, beautiful, full-figured woman for him.

Um, maybe that isn't what you are looking for in your love life?  Maybe you would love to find a sexy "pirate" - after all you seriously drooled over Johnny Depp in Pirates of the Caribbean (oh, sorry…your fantasy honey isn't a guy?? - then you were probably drooling over Keira Knightly in that movie.  

Hey!  That isn't Johnny Depp!

Here ya go…

Anyhow…have you thought about online dating?  That is actually how we (Rob & Janelle) met.
Yep - it is true!  Over 12 years ago, we met via a dating site.  Wow!  Married for 11 years :) 

But, what about finding someone really different and unique from you…you know, like Santa or Jack Sparrow.  In all honesty, have you ever considered dating someone outside your own country?

Well, guess what?  There is an international online dating site.  

This is very intriguing.  We recently talked about dating online recently on our podcast 
- listen to that episode below.  We admit, though, that we missed the international dating possibility…

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Friday, November 29, 2013

Stay Connected To Loved Ones w/an App!

Holy Cow!  Did you know…..???

Well, are you really surprised…it has happened.  There is an app that you can download for FREE that will alert you when your "favorite" people are on Facebook.  Isn't it amazing how things have changed in just the past few years?  Being able to connect and/or stay connected with those we love (lovers, children, parents, siblings, extended family, friends, etc.) has been getting easier and easier.  And, if have wished oh so many times that you knew when your best friend or your sweetie was online - right then (or when they are often), well, now you can have an app tell you!  You need to check this out!

Just a handful of years ago none of us even had cell phones - there was no such thing as social media.  In fact, few people had computers in their schools let alone their homes.  And, yet today the vast majority of us carry our "computers" around with us wherever we go.

There is a lot of talk about how people are losing the ability to communicate because they only text or use Facebook, but on the other hand - if it wasn't for Facebook millions of people would not be connected at all to a ton of their friends, family, old schoolmates, business partners, old-coworkers, etc. We agree that you need to be sensible and remember to communicate with those you have the opportunity to see face-to-face or even with an actual phone call, but if you know when to catch them online - on Facebook - you may have a lot easier time getting them to "chat" with you there and then figure out a time when you can actually talk or see each other in person!  Yay!

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Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Monday, November 25, 2013

Sexy Mood With Your Lover - Light Up His/Her Night

Change the mode and change your experience.  This Sexy Challenge helps you uncover a lot about you and your lover.  You will learn what affects your mood by using the five main senses: touch, smell, sound, sight, and taste.  Raise your awareness of what things act like an aphrodisiac for you and your partner.  What brings about erotic feelings and sensations?  Is it changing what you feel through temperature, material, etc.?  Is it about changing the sounds?  Is it about changing the lighting - there are a lot of unique ways to add different lighting to your lovemaking.  Is about a change in tastes?  What about new or different scents?  Each and every time you do this challenge it will be different.  This is an experience that you may very well want to repeat again and again!

Have you ever thought of taking a glowstick into your bedroom?  
Hmmm….sexy idea…seeing your sweetie's body in the soft glow of
blue, green, yellow, pink…..Again we say - hmmmm…..

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Love always brings difficulties, that is true, but the good side of it is that it gives energy.
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Saturday, November 23, 2013

3 Things To Be Able to Live in This World: Love, Hold, Let Go

To live in this world, you must be able to do three things: to love what is mortal; to hold it against your bones knowing your own life depends on it; and, when the time comes to let it go, to let it go.
- Mary Oliver

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Friday, November 22, 2013

Get Him a Super Sexy Christmas Gift!

Recently, someone asked me, "What can I buy [Tom] for Christmas?  He has everything!"

My response, "Ummm, does he have a copy of Sexy Challenges - the compilation of the first 50?"

She replied, "No, but that sounds like an awesome idea.  I can give him a present that keeps giving all year!  Freaking awesome!  Why didn't I think of that?"

Challenges include: Become the Warrior; Cell Phone Erotica; Shower Magick; Oooh Christmas Tree; New Year's Resolution; Having a Ball With Sex and 44 more!

Sex can be just sex. The mechanics of it can be planned out and the outcome you desire can be achieved as a purely physical act. It is possible that this can leave you feeling wonderful and physically connected with your partner. But, what if it could be so much more? What if the pleasure you feel now could be doubled, tripled or increased beyond belief? Would you want to experience that? Sexy Challenges can take you to a place where sensual love and sacred sex combine to form an experience that lifts you to new heights. Your experiences can move beyond just the physical. You might be surprised to learn that each orgasm you share with your beloved actually contains the vastness of the Universe. Inside this exciting book, you will discover fifty sexy challenges. These encompass a wide range of experiences. Through the fun, laughter, communication, romance and passion of these challenges the connection with your partner can become more powerful than you ever expected. You can touch the untouchable. The god or goddess within you can be revealed.

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Two Of The Biggest Myths About Sex & Aging

Dr. Janelle Alex, Ph.D. & Dr. Rob Alex, Ph.D. talk with Joan Price about sex myths and aging. Everyone should hear this! From Joan's book, Naked At Our Age, "With self-knowledge, creativity, good communication, and a sense of humor, we can roll with the changes and make the earth move again."

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Secrets That Keep You From Looking and Feeling Sexy

Alright ladies what are these secrets that you likely aren't aware of or don't have deeper knowledge about?  Feeling energetic, sexy, and confident brings an inner joy to the surface.  Your light will shine brighter, you will have more to give, you will be more focused, and you will be more creative.  When you know these secrets you can feel better about your body and your intelligence.  In fact, if you take these to heart and take action, there is a good chance that your libido will increase, too.  You will be bolder in the bedroom and the boardroom.  

So, what are these secrets?

  1. What you eat impacts not only how you look, but how you feel.  There are so many foods in the United States that are filled with junk and empty calories not to mention tons of chemicals and GMOs (genetically modified organisms).  Decreasing your animal protein can greatly improve your overall health.  Tip: Swap out dairy milk for almond milk, coconut milk or soy milk.  But, some foods, even healthier ones, cause your fat cells to swell.  Ah, but there are yummy foods that you can eat that shrink your fat cells!  Woo Hoo!  Blueberries, black beans, kale, red cabbage, and red onion are just a couple of examples.  If you want to ditch some of that belly fat, put these regularly into your diet.
  2. Working out regularly does a lot more than just burn calories and tone your body.  It releases toxins in the body!  When you work up a good sweat you are getting rid of some of that nasty stuff that makes you feel like crap.  And, another benefit of exercising is it increases your energy level, helps you focus more, and can help heighten your libido.  So many people these days are stuck behind a desk and computer for hours on end.  Then they go home and end up on social media on their handheld device while watching television.  This truly causes your muscles to…well, honestly, simply turn to mush.  Use it or lose it isn't just a cliche.
Okay - eat right and work out…might not be HUGE secrets even though there are deeper aspects that a lot of women don't realize that go along with them.  And, we only hinted at those vital pieces of information in this post.  But, I am willing to bet you may be surprised by the third secret.

     3.  Your body lotion, shampoo, face wash, eye-creams, anti-aging creams, perfumes and your make-up (even your nail polish) most likely have some really nasty chemicals in them that can cause everything from allergies to diabetes to cancer.  This even reminds me of the Batman movie with Michael Keaton and Jack Nicholson.  If I remember correctly, the Joker taints all the make-up and when women put it on they die or become deathly ill.  Well, that is no longer just a movie script.  Let's consider this possibility - You think you are eating healthy and are adamant about whole foods, and you work out religiously working the entire body.  You meditate or at least take five minutes of absolute quiet time for yourself every day.  BUT, you unwittingly continue to toxify your body by taking a shower and putting on your make-up!  EEK!  So, take the next step for yourself and find out what personal care products are safe to use.  Geesh, you say, something else to worry about…well, I believe that you are worth being healthy and feeling beautiful and sexy.  You deserve the best - you bust your butt all day for everybody…now take care of YOU, too!

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Tuesday, November 19, 2013

More Sexy Gift Ideas For Your Wife

How You Can Spice Up Your Married Life by Presenting Sexy Gifts to Your Wife? By 

If you want to spice up your married life and keep the love flame burning, then present sexy gifts to your gifts. It can be a sexy dress, a gracious act or something that will make your wife feel beautiful and comfortable in her own body. You need to be very caring while buying a sexy gift for your wife. Don't upset your wife by presenting something raunchy and vulgar because these gifts will embarrass your lady rather than pleasing them. So be creative and consider your wife's personal tastes and interests while buying gifts for her. Read this article to know what kind of sexy gifts you can present to your wife.
Buy some sexy lingerie for your wife that best suits her body-type and make her feel beautiful. You can buy a sexy baby doll nightie or a silk chemise if you want something more elegant and gracious. For a sexier gift, you can present her a pair of beauty panties, bustiers or silk robes.
You can also present her your special bath box which contains bath oils, body butters, scented candles and perfumes to create a very sexy and romantic mood when used.
Women love beautiful in heels. So present your wife a pair of sexy stilettos or knee high boots from her favorite designer. Take her to a fashion store and gift those sexy boots as you are getting ready to go out. While shopping, ensure you have a good sense of your wife's personal interests. You can also seek an advice from your female friend, sister or concerned sales person.
You can gift your wife a member to a local yoga or pilates centre. Because these kinds of exercise routines will keep her body in tone and make her look sexier.
Gift your wife a spa day treat where he can enjoy the works like a manicure, pedicure, facial and massage and take her for a romantic candle light dinner. After the treat, she will feel very refreshed and appreciate all your efforts to make her feel special and arranging such a romantic night.
If your wife loves dancing, then present her an instructional DVD or book for her favorite dance form and she will love the idea of having some sexy skills. You can also gift your wife a sexy costume and praise her efforts when she had learned a particular dance step.
You can add more spice to your married life by presenting your wife an album of sexy movies like "Out of Sight", "Mr. and Mrs. Smith", "His Girl Friday", "Body Heat" etc. Now enjoy watching these sexy movies with your wife in your bedroom. You can include a glass of wine and lit some scented candles to make the environment more romantic.
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Monday, November 18, 2013

Sexy & Unique Gift For Her

For thousands and thousands of years, people have adorned their bodies with temporary paint/staining, permanent ink/tattooing, rings, necklaces, bracelets and piercings/clips.  Why?  These display a message whether it is one of beauty and fashion or a message expressing the status of the individual.  Also, there are times that adorning the body is a way of honoring someone or something.  

These body adornments are often found to be sexy, too.  Belly rings/chains, ankle bracelets, and nipple rings are less common, but many find them very exciting and intriguing.  Yet, a lot of people are uncomfortable with the idea of permanently marking their bodies or being invasive using piercings.  

Of course, one can choose to wear bracelets, necklaces, rings and clip-on earrings - all of these are easily removable.  Then there are henna tattoos, which will keep you from undergoing those scary little needles and the permanence of the inked design.  If you like the idea of a belly ring or nose ring, you can always pick up some of those little stick-on jewels…cute and sexy.  But, what if you have some interest in going a little farther, but yet still not willing to pierce?  We recently heard about a super sexy and exciting way for women to adorn their nipples - no pain, only pleasure. And, these beautiful pieces of body jewelry actually give you a titillating little hug ;)  It's no wonder they are aptly named Nipple Huggers

Whether you choose to wear sexy clothes, beautiful lingerie, or nothing at all, adorning your body with tattoos and/or jewelry (permanent or not) is a fantastic way to spice things up.  When you choose the path of non-permanence then you leave yourself open to tons of options and can really change the way your body looks quite often…oooh, you will keep your partner wondering just what he/she is going to find the next time the two of you get naked together.  

And, here we are nearing the holiday gift giving season - this post has hopefully given you a naughty - yet extremely nice - idea for your lover's gift.  Even if you are the one wanting to have his/her body adorned you can buy the gift…give it to your lover with a note asking him/her to put it on your body…mmmm… ;) 

Enjoy a super sexy holiday season!  

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69 Interesting Places to Make Love!

When looking to spice up your love life, many couples look for adventurous or novel places to make love. There are certain locations that enable sensual love making while others demand quicker acts of passion. A bedroom is a comfortable place to make love but there are so many exciting and lusty locations to have passionate sex. Whether spontaneous and urgent or planned for fun, sex in new locations can be extremely thrilling.
Creative lovers are always on the look out for opportunities to get wild and frisky. With the right inspiration, every day sex can be transformed into an unforgettable experience. You may have seen other lovemaking location lists but let's push the envelope and go for at least 69 -- always a good number for sex ideas. Remember that for some locations, there are pleasurable sex activities other than intercourse. Oral and manual stimulation can be just as satisfying and more practical in some situations.

  1. Fooling around as passengers in a moving car (back seat while a friend drives, discreetly in a taxi, in a limousine with a privacy screen).
  2. In a parked car during a romantic or exciting event (watching fireworks, admiring a sunrise/sunset, sheltering from a thunderous rain storm).
  3. In a honeymoon suite but not during your Honeymoon. Elegant and fancy or themed for fun, recreate your honeymoon or practice what it would be like.
  4. In a seedy motel. Arrive separately and roleplay an office coworker affair or a prostitute fantasy.
  5. In a high class hotel suite with a panoramic window view -- keep the curtains open if you dare.
  6. In a room with at least one hundred candles casting a soft glowing light over your naked bodies while you enjoy sensual pleasuring.
  7. Frosty fornication in a snow fort or igloo you made together is great fun. You can even fashion a special mound to mount on.
  8. On a boat in the open air (not below deck). Consider a canoe, row boat or rubber raft if you don't have access to a yacht, sail or speed boat with a large deck.
  9. Slick with massage oil wresting on a plastic sheet or in a blowup pool.
  10. In the shower enjoying the sensual, slippery suds and a hand held water massager. Intimate bathing and bonding or hot steamy sex -- what ever suits your mood.  Check out Sexy Challenge's Shower Magick.
  11. In an English garden surrounded by fragrant blossoms. Make it more fun by dressing elegantly and indulge in a sense of aristocratic debauchery.
  12. In a gazebo under the stars, moonlight or noon day sun. Semi outdoor sex as secluded as you dare.
  13. On a king size water bed fitted with satin sheets and lots of fluffy pillows.
  14. In a cool, fast moving stream or small creek. A swirling pool under a water fall is an amazing location if you can find one.
  15. On a swing strong enough for two. Actually swinging together with penetration is tricky, however there are many other fun activities you can do involving a swing.
  16. In a hammock between two palm trees on a secluded ocean front beach.
  17. In a lookout tower or observatory. Finding one that provides a scenic view and opportune privacy will be its own adventure.
  18. Rear entry on a bridge while overlooking the depth below. Even more intense on a swaying rope bridge for added adrenaline rush.
  19. In the stairwell of an apartment or office building -- better exercise than taking the elevator. (or on the stairs in you own house)
  20. On the top of a large hill or small mountain under the stars or full moon. Take in the view with a bottle of wine then enjoy each other.
  21. On a train. Either in a rare, vacant car or a private cabin, "playing on the tracks" is a temptation to be tried.
  22. In a van, the back of a pickup truck or on the hood of a sports car.
  23. While skinny dipping at night in a pool, river, lake or ocean. Note that cool water tends to make some bits firmer while others shrink.  Pick Sexy Challenge's Let's Swim to the Moon
  24. In a bath, hot tub or spa. Soak, soothe and sensually stroking each other or stimulate wet and wild sex with invigorating water jets.
  25. On a roof. Outside on the flat top of tall building or (carefully) on a low, slightly sloped roof can be thrilling.
  26. In a field of tall grass or flowers. A secluded, lush green meadow next to a small stream is ideal.
  27. Under a cherry, apple or other fruit tree in full bloom. Enjoy the sensual sights, sounds and smells of Spring whenever you can.
  28. On a pile of pillows. An assortment of shapes, sizes, colors and textures all piled for pleasure. Have a playful pillow fight. Try new positions.
  29. In a barn. A horse stable may bring out the animal in you. The hayloft (on soft straw) can be extremely fun. Roleplay cowboy, stable hand or farmer's daughter.
  30. Deep in a forest up against a large tree. Agile couples can even try various positions in the tree if the branches are just right.
  31. Outside in the refreshing, cool rain during a hot day or night. Thunder and lightning add to the thrill.
  32. Safely under a sheet metal roof during a hail storm or torrential down pour.
  33. Anywhere under the hot sun with an ice dildo. Make one by freezing a plastic water/pop bottle filled with water and cutting the plastic off.
  34. In a sleeping bag in the open air under a clear sky bright with stars. Go as far away from city lights as possible. Aurora lights will make it even more special.
  35. On a tiny island. Revel in quiet seclusion or spice it up with roleplay. Pretend to be castaways or, for a historic setting, a scout meeting a native first time.
  36. On a beach on the hot, dry sand or right on the shore with the waves lapping up around you. Anywhere you can see and hear huge crashing waves.
  37. In the middle of a sports field or stadium (golf course, soccer, football, rugby, race track, etc.). Most likely best during off season or at night.
  38. In a cave, tunnel or under a bridge. The echoes of your ecstasy or the sounds of traffic overhead can be exciting.
  39. On a trampoline or blowup bouncer. Standing intercourse while jumping may be tricky. An exercise ball will give a similar bouncy feeling for other positions.
  40. In a small clothes or coat closet with the doors closed so it is completely dark. Will someone open it and catch you in the act? Fun at parties.
  41. On a billiard table as a forfeit for losing a few games of Dirty Pool
  42. On a fur rug/coat in front of a warm, glowing fireplace at night.
  43. In every room of your home and your lover's home if you live separately.
  44. Creatively on or using stable pieces of furniture. On the kitchen counter, dining table, sofa, foot stool, etc. On the floor and up against the wall too.  Or take it to a different level with Unstable Passion.
  45. In front of a mirror or beneath one attached to the ceiling. Get a revealing new perspective of your love making from new angles.
  46. In front of a tripod mounted video camera or webcam. Record for later, view live or stream to an internet audience if you are an exhibitionist.
  47. In a small log cabin, thatch hut, mud hut or teepee. Include the possibility when planning vacations.
  48. In a garage, boat house or storage shed. Surreptitiously meet while others are outside unaware of your naughty behavior.
  49. In a tree house or fort (either a chance discovery, your own or a neighbors). Pretend you are teenagers fooling around for the first time.
  50. Next to an open fire while camping. A roaring fire stimulates passion while softly glowing embers at night instill romance and intimacy.
  51. On or against a clothes washing machine especially during the spin cycle.
  52. At a sex club or fetish party in a private cubicle or on display for others to see.
  53. On exercise equipment at a private gym. You will definitely enjoy your workout.
  54. In a dark corner of a dance club with a pulsing, pounding beat to grind to. A skirt and no panties/underwear makes this a much easier to perform.
  55. In a parking lot between parked cars/vans. Try underground and above ground parking lots but take care for security systems and surveillance cameras.
  56. Snuggling together in a sleeping bag in a small tent. Weather conditions, wilderness sounds or scary stories can set the mood.
  57. On a designated border line between two countries, states or provinces -- one person in each territory engaging in diplomatic relations.
  58. In or near a cemetery at midnight during a full moon if you dare. Standing sex will have both your legs shaking with the thrill.  Mummify Me - another Sexy Challenge.
  59. In a public restroom, change room or even a friends bathroom. Novelty and the risk of getting caught coming out together make this exciting.
  60. On a plush lawn at night or early morning while it is still wet with dew.
  61. In a theatre during an arousing show or to make it more interesting. Remember to bring some wet wipes to clean your fingers.
  62. In a pile of fallen leaves or freshly cut grass.
  63. In a bed covered with rose petals or lots of money.
  64. On a private patio, porch or deck (poolside even better). A sturdy lawn chair or table, air mattress or a few seat cushions may come in handy.
  65. In an elevator (late at night on a weekday might be a good time and dress for a quickie).
  66. At a costume party. Dress the part for a sexy roleplaying scenario. Flirt and play act until you can secretly meet to fulfill your fantasy.
  67. Out on a high rise apartment balcony or next to a large window near the top floor. Try standing rear entry while looking down below.
  68. In a private adult playroom stocked with a wide variety of pleasuring implements. Bondage devices, costumes, toys and other playthings will whet your desire.
  69. Inside a walk in vault (it has happened but tends to require an employee or owner to facilitate). A walk in fridge or supply room is a quick alternative.
Some lovemaking locations may actually be a little tricky, costly, too exotic or even slightly dangerous depending upon your circumstances. However, if an idea intrigues you, you can always setup a scenario and roleplay a situation in a pretend location. With a little imagination and a few props, you can create a fantasy setting to fulfill your desires. You can even recreate historical, fanciful or alien space settings.
For more frisky ideas to enhance your relationship with foreplay fun and quality sex, check out the Frisky Foreplay erotic dice game.

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Sunday, November 17, 2013

Wanna Go On a First Day Again With Your Sweetie?

"I don't know who you are, Henry...but I dream about you almost every night." -- Lucy

We absolutely love this movie.  It is almost 10 years old now, but it is a great one!

Saturday, November 16, 2013

How to Be More Confident As A Woman

Here is one take on how to be more confident as a woman.  There is some truth behind these tips, but no two people are the same.  For that matter - not every woman wants or "needs" to put make-up on to feel confident or sexy.  Read this article and see what you think.

How to Become a More Confident and Attractive Woman - 3 Things You Can Do

Every woman wants to be attractive, regardless of age. If you are a woman, you probably agree with me.
I am not too sure if you have heard of this phrase, 'there are no ugly women, only lazy women'. So what is the meaning of this phrase? Well, it simply means every woman can be attractive, as long as she is willing to put in the effort to doll up herself.
Of course, being attractive is not all about how you look on the outside. It is also about your internal attributes, especially how confident you are about yourself. Let's put it this way. Even a plain Jane can be very attractive if she exudes an aura of confidence.
Don't believe me? Well, you can always go out there to conduct your own experiment if you wish. Just grab any ten men on the street and ask them this question, "Do you find confident women attractive?" I am sure at least 9 out of those 10 men will say they do. The one who says 'no' is probably lying or just suffering from low self esteem.
So if you want men to fall head over heels for you, start working on your confidence today. Not sure how to get started? Well, let's go through these few tips together.
1. Put on Makeup
I know I have said that being attractive is not all about your outer appearance. But let's face it. In general, people do judge a book by its cover.
So at the very least, do try to put on some makeup to make yourself more presentable, especially in professional situation. You will also feel more confident, knowing that you now look more attractive because of the makeup.
2. Dress Up
Perhaps you have heard of this saying, a woman most precious possession is her wardrobe. Well, there is certainly an element of truth in this statement.
If you want to look more attractive, you simply cannot allow yourself to dress too shabbily. From time to time, you may want to shop for new clothing.
Nowadays, buying a dress is getting more and more convenient. You can even shop online nowadays!
3. Sign Up for a Public Speaking Class
Believe it or not, public speaking is considered the number one fear by many people. Unfortunately, public speaking is something you cannot avoid if you want to progress in your career.
Since you can't avoid it, why not embrace it. Sign up for a public speaking class. You can even consider joining a Toastmaster Club. Before you know it, your public speaking skill will improve and you will find your confidence soar.
And you know what? Men will always find an eloquent woman attractive. So what are you still waiting for? Start brushing up your public speaking skills today.

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Friday, November 15, 2013

If She Is Confident, She's Sexy

**Can't say that we are Paris Hilton fans, but this quote is something we can be a fan of!

Size, shape, hair color, eye color, blah, blah, blah…sure it matters to some extent to some people, 
but to be sexy - you simply need to be confident and then you can be VERY sexy!

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Thursday, November 14, 2013

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Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Why Won't Your Partner Kiss You?

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Tuesday, November 12, 2013

How to Let Go of Resentment & Feel Love

Dr. Janelle Alex, Ph.D. & Dr. Rob Alex, Ph.D. sat down and talked with Robyn Vogel about resentments and "withholds" and how to let those things go so that you can feel a deeper connection to your partner and feel more love. Robyn defines resentment and then shares a method to move past it. Find Robyn at

Monday, November 11, 2013

Thankful for Family or Not at Thanksgiving?

A Thanksgiving to Be Grateful For


You love your extended family, you really do, and the thought of all those aunts and uncles, in-laws and parents, cousins and various spouses and children warms your heart.
Until it's time for them to descend on your home for Thanksgiving.
Even if it's just a parent or solitary in-law or wayward cousin, having to deal with relatives you see but once or twice a year can be a trial. It seems so much easier to love them at a distance!
At a distance, you forget all about Aunt Ethel's obnoxious eating habits, or your mother/mother-in-law's critical comments about you, your hairdo, your children, your home, your job, your pets, your cooking, your--well, everything.
You welcome them with love and smiles into your home for the Thanksgiving feast you've prepared to the very best of your culinary ability, with care for each of their individual preferences, trying not to let your frantic last-minute running around show.
Here they are, and here's the feast, and all is well.
But it doesn't take long for Aunt Ethel's chomping to get at you, or those critical comments to make you grit your teeth (biting back the sharp retort you long to give), nor for you to think unkind thoughts of your cousin's new wife (a plunging neckline and leather micro-skirt? At the family Thanksgiving get-together?).
Somehow, all the thanks in Thanksgiving--the spirit of gratitude, appreciation and tolerance for one another--disappears even before the pumpkin pie is served.
Time for a shift! A shift in focus, that is. You see, anything you focus on grows. The more you allow yourself to notice your relatives' irritating behaviors, the more unhappy you will become. The more unhappy you are, the less you are able to tune in to the spirit of Thanksgiving. Instead of a celebration of gratitude, you end up with a headache and a pissy attitude.
Shift. Think about how much Aunt Ethel loves her food. The food you so lovingly prepared. So she has horrible table manners, so? She's having a good time, all due to you.
Your mother/mother-in-law's critical take on the world is her problem. You like yourself as you are, along with your hairdo, your children, your home, your job, your pets, your--you get the drift. Criticism is often a misguided attempt to improve things for others so they can be happier. This is just your mother/mother-in-law's way of loving you. Weird, I know, but again--not your problem. Let the critical comments flow off you like water off a duck. Irrelevant, no different than bad late-night talk show bla-bla. Just filler. Unimportant.
So the new wife is showing off her stuff? Who cares? It makes her happy, and certainly doesn't mean you have to imitate her style.
Focus on what does matter: the guests who are enjoying themselves, how nicely your casserole turned out, that the table looks lovely. Focus on how grateful you are to have a family--of one, or two, or many. Focus on how good it is to be alive, and to have the goodness that exists in your life.
Focus on giving thanks, let the rest just roll on by, and you will have a Thanksgiving to be grateful for.
Noelle C. Nelson, Ph.D., is a psychologist, relationship expert, popular speaker in the U.S. and abroad, and author of 10 best-selling books. Dr. Nelson focuses on how we can all enjoy happy, fulfilling lives while accomplishing great things in love, at home and at work, as we appreciate ourselves, our world and all others. Visit http://www.noellenelson.com
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Sunday, November 10, 2013

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Saturday, November 9, 2013

Glow In The Dark Love

Here is an awesome idea.  Get some glow-in-the-dark powder, sprinkle it around your room, turn on a black light and change the mood.  Now, mind you this might make a mess - so be prepared to clean it all up.  On top of this you could wear clothes (lingerie) that will stand out with the black light.

Oooh, super sexy night.  

What if you don't want the mess or you don't have a black light or don't want one?
You could always consider using some glow sticks, glow necklaces, glow bracelets.  
This way there is no mess and you can turn out all of the lights and check each other out in the glow of blue, red, green, pink, yellow.  Interesting *wink *wink.  Certainly makes for a different twist on when to wear glow sticks or why to wear them ;) 

You could even go super sexy and consider wearing glow devil horns.  Naughty, naughty. 

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