Friday, November 30, 2012

Breath Enhances Your Sex Life - 7 Ways #7


         Not Just Oxygen – Instead of thinking of breathing as taking in oxygen imagine you are breathing in your partner’s love for you and exhaling your love for him/her.  Breath or “prana” in Sanskrit is considered to be the life force and is concentrated along the seven main chakras.  So, visualize your partner’s breath as life giving love for you and your breath as life giving love for him/her.  Become aware of the two of you sharing, blending and exchanging breath integrating your minds, your bodies and your souls.

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Thursday, November 29, 2012

Where Does Sex Rank In Your Relationship?

There are many different views on how important sex is in a relationship.   Today we allow many things to come before sex in our relationships.  I even saw one page that said over half the couples today don't view sex an important part of relationship.  That is crazy.  Going back to India and their powerful divine mother they claim that there are five enjoyments for the divine mother.  Those include Meat, Fish, Grain, Wine, and Maithuna (Sexual Magic).  What does that say?  It tells me that those of ancient times had a better understanding of what we need than the people of today.  It seems so simple to me that intimacy is a major part of our life and an important one.  However, you have to understand that you must put sexual intimacy in a much different light than just purely physical.  Once you understand that your sexual intimacy should rank right up there with what we consider the necessary things to support life, you will gain a clearer picture of how magical sex can be!


Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Rock Star Sexual Energy - Podcast Episode

What do those who perform on stage have that attract us?  Sexual energy.  It is the factor that draws our attention to the stage and to watch!  That stage can be a concert, a sporting event, the theater, and more - the list can go on and on.  Sure there is talent we want to witness, but within that talent lies the sexual being that is creating and performing and we want to soak it up!  Listen in as we discuss this.  Be sure to send in your questions for Q&A Fridays too -  Listen online or via iTunes

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Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Breath Enhances Your Sex Life - 7 Ways #6


1      Energetic Flow – Breathing moves energy through your body.  As you become aware of your breathing you will become aware of your entire body and the sensations that flow from head to toe and back again.  Breathe in deeply pulling energy into your root chakra (located at the base of your spine between the coccyx and pelvic bone) from the Earth.  Hold that new energy there and focus on the spinning of that chakra.  After a few breaths, move this energy up to the sacral chakra (located just below the navel) as you inhale.  Again, focus on spinning that chakra with this increased energy.  As you come together with your lover envision your root and sacral chakras blending your energies.  This is the beginning of heightening the sexual energetic flow in your body.

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Monday, November 26, 2012

Annett E Banks - Artwork Full of Sensuality

I stumbled upon some amazing art work that spoke of sensuality to me.  The artist name is Annett E Banks and I feel that she has amazing energy and sensuality.  Check out some of her great work by searching it on google.  You will be amazed.  

As you might guess I love amazing sensual artwork so if you have any to share let me know I will soak it up and maybe post it on my site.  

Saturday, November 24, 2012

Breath Enhances Your Sex Life - 7 Ways #5

Breathe in Tandem – Breathing together in tandem can deepen your bond as well as get you in harmony with one another.  Sitting facing one another get close enough so that your knees are touching.  You may also sit in the yab yum position (one partner sits cross-legged while the other partner sits facing him/her on his/her lap and wraps his/her legs around the bottom partner).  Become aware of your breath.  Then focus on inhaling and exhaling at the same time as your lover.  You can do this fully clothed and out of bed or to heighten the experience you can sit in yab yum naked and in bed.      

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Friday, November 23, 2012

Great Book For Those Interested In Sacred Sex

Restoring a sense of sacred significance to the act of lovemaking, the practice of sexual magic also enables couples to celebrate the highest form of erotic communication. Sexuality becomes a way to honor both physical instincts and spiritual yearnings. A world-renowned expert in the field of Tantric sexuality, Anand sensitively guides readers through a series of unique exercises, many of which are based on ancient erotic rituals. In the process, readers will become "sexual magicians, " gaining enchanting new powers that are magically accessible to every man and woman. Beautifully illustrated, with more than sixty explanatory drawings, "The Art of Sexual Magic" is a life-changing book for those who seek to discover the magic potential of sexual energy. It invites lovers on an exciting, unexplored pathway and richly rewarding journey.

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Moods - Playing With Your Senses

Change the mood and change your experience. This Sexy Challenge helps you uncover a lot about you and your lover. You will learn what affects your mood by using the five main senses: touch, smell, sound, sight and taste. Raise your awareness of what things act like an aphrodisiac for you and for your partner. What brings about erotic feelings and sensations? Each and every time you do this challenge it will be different. This is an experience that you may very well want to repeat over and over again. 

Monday, November 19, 2012

Boost Your Relationship Today!

The holidays are here!  Isn't it time to figure out what is going on in your relationship?
Maybe it needs a little boost?  Maybe is needs a major overhaul?  

Well, how about taking a step towards figuring some of it out?

Check out The Shape of Your Relationship Virtual Workshop

Does your relationship need a boost?
Don't know what your partner wants?
Feel like your partner doesn't listen?
Want to enhance your sex life?

This workshop gives you a unique and fun way to

*Deepen the bond between you
*Uncover what influences your relationship
*Enhance your sex life
*Discover your uniqueness and your partner's 
*Understand your partner
*Understand YOU
*Decrease arguments
*Get your partner to see through your eyes
*Build your relationship on your foundation
*Open doors of communication

We will work with 7 basic shapes and how they relate to your relationship.  We will also share a bonus shape that combines all 7.  

All participants will receive a packet with the shape worksheets, a copy of one Sexy Challenge, and a copy of one Intimate Adventure. is only a $25 investment!!!!  What????  Seriously!!!  That makes it affordable to just about everyone!
And.......attend via phone or computer - no traveling - total privacy - total comfort!  

Click here to Register Now!  

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Sunday, November 18, 2012

Breath Enhances Your Sex Life - 7 Ways #3


 Set the Rhythm – Your breathing can control your heart rate and ultimately control the pace of your lovemaking.  When you slow down your breathing you can slow down your experience.  Yet, beware that slowing down your breathing too much can also cause you to lose your sexual desire.  So, only slow down your breathing enough to prolong your lovemaking.  Taking deep, slow breaths will allow more blood to flow into the genitals and this will enable the penis to swell more as well as the clitoris.  This increase in blood flow will help you experience more sensation in the genitals. 

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Saturday, November 17, 2012

Time to Get Ready For The Sexy Christmas Season

Nothing says Christmas any better than when the Christmas Victoria Secret Catalog comes out.  Okay maybe we are stretching things a bit, but as the Christmas Shopping Season is now upon us it is time to remember to pick up those sexy items for our beloved.  I know for the past 10 years I have gotten my love a gift certificate for Victoria's Secret.  Many people say that a gift certificate is a easy way out.  However, it is my opinion that it is very thoughtful.  This way my love gets what she wants and I get to enjoy seeing her in these amazing beautiful things as they arrive to our house.  So it is actually like I get to extend my Christmas for a month or so.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Breath Enhances Your Sex Life - 7 Ways #2


1        Fanning the Flame – When you are trying to start a fire what often happens?  You need to fan the spark and turn it into a roaring fire.  Right?  That spark needs oxygen to turn into a hot flame.  As you are flirting with and playing with and loving on your partner visualize this.  Imagine leaning towards that little spark and gently blowing until it turns into a raging inferno.  In fact, you can do this visualization prior to touching your lover or prior to even being in the same location as he/she.  Imagination is very powerful and with practice it can light your flame.     

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