5 Tips To Make Your Honeymoon Sex Great

First of all, congratulations on surviving all the planning that has led up to your wedding day celebration. This is likely to be a fun, but long and tiring day. Here are five tips to help your wedding night sex be sensational. Let's get it on!

1. Consider "Wedding Night" as the "Wedding Night Weekend". You probably didn't get much sleep before the wedding. And you've been greeting relatives, dancing and drinking all day and into the evening. Once you make your getaway from the reception, you might get a second wind and rush to finally "hook up" and connect in that special, intimate way on your actual wedding night. If you're happy, but exhausted, don't pressure yourself into performing on your wedding night. Go for some morning after maneuvers or a little afternoon delight the next day. The right time will present itself relatively quickly after all the fuss and muss of the wedding is over. Don't put undo pressure on yourself or your new spouse.

2. Postpone "That Time of the Month". If you're on the birth control pill and your wedding and honeymoon happen to chance right at that time of the month, you can usually postpone it by taking the proper birth control pills for an extra few days. Talk to your gynecologist about this as it is possible and will allow you to have a lot more fun on your honeymoon.

3. Dress for Success. Your first day of sex as a married couple should be special. White lingerie that conveys "virginal" can help get things started. Or, wear something unexpected and different than normal. The message here is to plan ahead to surprise and titillate to make for some fun, erotic memories. Again though, do not pressure yourself to give the greatest performance of your life. Whatever happens, happens. You'll still have a great time so don't have any expectations. You'll be pleasantly surprised if you don't expect too much.

4. Abstain for weeks or months before the wedding. Take a vacation from sex during the weeks or months leading up to the wedding. Abstaining from doing the horizontal hula will certainly make you want it more. Once the wedding night and honeymoon finally arrive, your pent up sexual energies will be released and it will make for a magical, memorable time.

5. Don't drink too much alcohol. Alcohol certainly helps limber people up in social situations. It might make it easier to talk to all those relatives you don't normally talk to at your wedding. But it certainly won't help when it comes to going the distance when it comes to sex. You must walk the fine line of drinking enough to have a good time, but not so much that you get drunk and wiped out. If you don't drink alcohol at all, you don't have anything to worry about. But, don't all of a sudden chug a bunch of champagne or beers if you're not used to it. That will only knock you out on your butt. You don't want to be hugging the porcelain bowl all night.

That's about all the wisdom I have to offer. Have fun, no expectations and a sense of humor and you'll have a great wedding night.

Lisa Gunther is a freelance writer and product reviewer. She loves throwing out tasty nuggets of advice for anyone ready and willing to try a little nibble. Gunther Gifts http://www.gunthergifts.com is a great place to shop for engraved gifts for your groomsmen, bridesmaids, mom or dad, graduates, business associates, friends, etc. Personalized Zippo lighters, liquor flasks, Leatherman tools, Swiss Army knives, custom shot glasses or wine glasses, golf putter sets, leathergoods, and so much more are all available at Gunther Gifts. Groomsmen Gifts - Gunther Gifts specializes in unique groomsmen gifts and wedding favors.

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8 Dirty Little Secrets to Keep The Spark Alive

Dirty Little Secrets That Will Keep The Spark Alive

Everybody knows that after the “honeymoon” phase is over that the mundane sets in.  It may take you a few months or a few years, but eventually everyday life takes hold and for almost every couple the excitement they experienced in the beginning fades to a dull ho-hum rut. 

Yet, there are a few dirty little secrets that can keep the spark alive.  Why are these secrets dirty?  Well, they have been used over and over by millions of couples to get through the tough times, to languish together in the easier times, to keep their relationship charged in the mediocre times.  Yep…after all that use these secrets have a little dirt on them.  So, let’s dig in.

1.     Communicate!  Oh Boy!  That one seems obvious doesn’t it, but it is true!  If you don’t talk, text, or physically communicate what you want, don’t want, like and don’t like, you are going to experience more arguments and, on top of that, you will grow apart.  Oh crap!! 

2.    Be courageous.  Being in a long-term relationship is one of the scariest and hardest things you could ever do.  You have to be brave enough to face the deepest parts of yourself and of your lover.  Because the longer you are together – the more likely those parts will show up.  Mind you, this is also a wonderful opportunity to grow within a safe and trusting space.

3.    Have consistency.  Be honest – always.  Be yourself.  We all have different moods, but do your best to be who you truly are with your partner always.  Having no idea what to expect from your sweetheart from day-to-day will cause a lot of stress and perhaps, eventually, a break in your relationship.

4.    Make lots of love!  The spark doesn’t have to fade in this area either if you are willing to find new things for the two of you to try.  Ah, a great reason to have Sexy Challenges in your life!  And, the more often you make love the more often the body continues to want to.  It is like a muscle after all…use it or lose it!

5.    Continue growing (separately and together).  Learning new things as a couple is definitely a key to keep spice in your love life.  This will help keep boredom at bay.  But, don’t forget to learn new things individually as well.  Then you can come home and share about your new experiences, adventures, knowledge with your sweetheart.   

6.    Be clear about what you want. You need to know what you want in your life and out of your relationship.  If you don’t really have a clue, then how can you expect to find happiness and maintain it?  For that matter, if your partner doesn’t know what you want, how can he/she be expected to share in things that bring your happiness?

7.    Learn from others…rinse and repeat!  Learn from experts about different things.  How did they stay together?  What have they learned in their studies?  What do they know?  What does ancient history show?  How are people managing in today’s society?  But, remember to always take that information, rinse it off…getting rid of the stuff that doesn’t fit the two of you, then, and only then, repeat the parts that make sense to you.

8.    Be committed.  Make a promise not only to yourself, but to your beloved to do everything you can to make your relationship work and to keep it fresh and filled with sparks.

Janelle Alex, Ph.D. – Co-Founder of Sexy Challenges

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