Dealing w/Spouse's Sex Addiction?

Before the Dust Settles: 

8 Mistakes to Avoid Immediately After Discovering 

Your Partner's Sex Addiction

As of today (2/2/14) this book is FREE for the Kindle, but only for another day or so!

After making the discovery of your spouse's sex addiction, life as you once knew it is over. While you are trying to comprehend the trauma of discovering your partner's betrayals, you risk making serious mistakes that can negatively impact you now and well into the future. This book outlines 8 of the most common mistakes that many people make immediately following the discovery of their partner's secret life of betrayal. Here, you will learn why NOT to make these mistakes that may potentially create lasting damage to your emotional well-being as you try to pick up the pieces of your life and move forward.

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This blog post was sponsored by Margaret Stone - 

Read her blog My Husband Is a Sex Addict - Now What??

Romance Novels are Super Sexy & Can Heighten Your Sex Life!

It is said that women who read romance novels actually have twice as much sex as those who don't read these type of stories.  Hmmm…  So, guys don't make fun of her sexy little novels and ladies don't be embarrassed!  Read, read, read…  Both of you can benefit ;) 

Article on Romance Novels - Hot on E-Readers NYTimes.com

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This post was sponsored by: Sydney Arrison author of My Heart in Seoul

Looking for sensual romance? Check out"My Heart In Seoul." $2.51http://amzn.com/B00G1J1346
The story revolves around Jasmine Sinclair a successful New York reporter. She finds herself in the middle of a major scandal (the Olivia Pope kind) she's relentlessly pursued by the press and flees the country with her political father.
While visiting Seoul, she's completely intoxicated by her surroundings. Jasmine dares to approach a mysterious and handsome stranger. The encounter leads to an unforgettable, passion filled weekend, but she soon realizes that nothing will quell her yearning to be with the man she loves. Will distance, ambitions and family ties keep them apart or will they find each other again?"

Emmy winning reporter Annette Lawless calls My Heart In Seoul "a great find."




Passage:
"He stared in her eyes for a moment, and then he leaned over and kissed her. As their lips touched, he could feel the sobs in her throat vibrate through him. He felt her tremble when he pulled her closer to him. Her perfume smelled sweet, a delicate fragrance, that reminded him of lying in dew covered grass on a warm summer's night."
�2013 Sydney Arrison All Rights Reserved.

Photo credit James Leynse for The New York Times
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Get Him a Super Sexy Christmas Gift!

Order a copy now!

Recently, someone asked me, "What can I buy [Tom] for Christmas?  He has everything!"

My response, "Ummm, does he have a copy of Sexy Challenges - the compilation of the first 50?"

She replied, "No, but that sounds like an awesome idea.  I can give him a present that keeps giving all year!  Freaking awesome!  Why didn't I think of that?"

Challenges include: Become the Warrior; Cell Phone Erotica; Shower Magick; Oooh Christmas Tree; New Year's Resolution; Having a Ball With Sex and 44 more!

Sex can be just sex. The mechanics of it can be planned out and the outcome you desire can be achieved as a purely physical act. It is possible that this can leave you feeling wonderful and physically connected with your partner. But, what if it could be so much more? What if the pleasure you feel now could be doubled, tripled or increased beyond belief? Would you want to experience that? Sexy Challenges can take you to a place where sensual love and sacred sex combine to form an experience that lifts you to new heights. Your experiences can move beyond just the physical. You might be surprised to learn that each orgasm you share with your beloved actually contains the vastness of the Universe. Inside this exciting book, you will discover fifty sexy challenges. These encompass a wide range of experiences. Through the fun, laughter, communication, romance and passion of these challenges the connection with your partner can become more powerful than you ever expected. You can touch the untouchable. The god or goddess within you can be revealed.

Tuned Into Technology - Tuned Out of Relationships

"In these modern times, it has become easier and easier to tune in to the television, your computer, your phone, or your iPad.  This means you are tuning out from your sweetheart and your intimate relationship.  It may not seem so at first, but eventually being turned on by your lover will wane and become secondary to today's media and digital gadgets and other priorities."

- Janelle and Rob Alex 

via Loving and Lasting: How to Stay Tuned In and Turned On In Your Marriage

*You can fix this though...

Pick up a copy of Loving and Lasting

Love Doesn't Move In A Straight Line

"Love is not linear. Sex is not rational. Emotions won't cooperate with the mind's methodical attempts to analyze lust's sticky substance.  The brain will not sit idly by and watch while the heart, lungs, groin, and guts break from convention and dive headlong into the sensual experience."  

-- Stephanie DeRosier via The Marriage of Sex and Spirit

Nature Lovers! Share Your Love In Unique Way

Recently Rob and I drove from Colorado to Montana (to the west side of Glacier National Park...almost to Canada) so I could perform the wedding ceremony for two of my dearest friends.  

They are huge nature lovers!  Therefore, I thought I would share this Intimate Adventure that I wrote a couple of years back in honor of them and their love (for each other and for nature). 

Intimate Adventures are sacred ceremonies for couples. They take ordinary life and make them special. Allowing both partners to enjoy the connection they share. With the vision of creating a warm and wonderful spot of couples to journey together Intimate Adventures offers these suggestions of ceremonies for the two of you to enjoy.

Nature Lovers is a way to bring the beauty and power of nature into your relationship. With each falling leave we learn,

 with each rock we find adventure. Our relationship is nature so why do we not invite nature into our relationship. 

Check it out here... Amazon, iTunes, Barnes and Noble

Practice a Little Sexy Voodoo for Halloween

Halloween is sneaking up on you.  Maybe it is time you shared a little unique intimate play with your sweetie?

How about creating a Voodoo Love Doll?  The two of you can have a lot of fun with this.

Voodoo Dolls are not really what you might think.  This Sexy Challenge will help you transform your concept of Voodoo into a passionate and loving experience.  Create and share a voodoo love doll with your sweetheart while discovering a unique and powerful connection between your souls.

Find many more great Sexy Challenges on Amazon, iTunes and at Barnes and Noble.  Also, listen to our free podcast, Sexy Challenge Heartbeats at iTunes or online.

Can You Really Stay Close For Years and Years?

We believe that couples can stay close - emotionally, romantically, and physically throughout their relationship.  It doesn't matter how long they are together.  *Now mind you, we realize that there are simply times that people grow apart no matter how much they try to grow together.  Or they really weren't meant to be together to begin with.  In those situations, there is nothing wrong with moving on. But, for those couples who simply drift apart without conscious thought or they fall into a rut of the relationship just being "good enough" we want them to know that they can have a deeply connected relationship.  They can be best friends and amazing lovers.

By sharing amazing tips, advice, guidance and creating sexy, sensual and sacred scenarios for couples we open a door for couples to step through and find ways to keep the spark alive.

And, we just so happen to do this through our daily blog and over 80 ebooks - Sexy Challenges and Intimate Adventures and more via Amazon, iTunes, and Barnes and Noble.  And, of course, through our podcast, Sexy Challenge Heartbeats.  Wanna pick some up or subscribe to the podcast for free?  What are you waiting for?

Keeping it sacred and sexy,
Janelle and Rob


Photo credit: © Kzenon - Fotolia.com

Talking About Senior Sex

We are excited to share with you one of our colleague's videos.  

Joan Price is one of the co-authors of a newly released book we are a part of.

Loving and Lasting: How to Stay Tuned In and Turned On in Your Marriage

Check out her books!

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Fan Favorites of Sexy Challenges

Have you picked up any new Sexy Challenges?  Here are some fan favorites! 

Grab a couple...or grab the compilation of the first 50!

Sacrifice to the Gods of Passion

Amazing Orgasms

Having a Ball With Sex

All Day Arousal

Sexual Meditation

The Compilation of the first 50!

**These links are for your Kindle (via Amazon).

You can get Sexy Challenges for the Nook or via iTunes too!

Trio of Sexy Challenges to Get Your Love Flowing

This trio of Sexy Challenges offers you ways to spice up your sex life while moving outside of your normal boundaries. The way you communicate will expand and so will your pleasure boundaries. Let your lover know in a unique way what excites you. Build anticipation while lighting a spark that will burn and burn. That spark will turn into a blazing fire as you communicate in special, sexy ways throughout your day, your week or even longer.

Check it out now!

Loving and Lasting: How to Stay Tuned In and Turned On - Released on Amazon

We are excited to tell you that a new book has been released on Amazon and we are co-authors!  

Do you want a more meaningful and fulfilling marriage—one where you feel deeply connected emotionally, spiritually, and physically? Seriously, do you? 

Do you want to reignite the passion, eroticism, and romance you and your sweetheart shared when you met? 

In Loving and Lasting you’ll find the best advice from 20 of my favorite love experts. So get that fire extinguisher ready—these experts are ready to share it all—what really works to quickly get you tuned in and turned on in your marriage! 

You’ll learn how to:
• Rediscover intimacy, sexual excitement, and physical pleasure
• Fall in love again with your spouse
• Communicate better and release negativity
• Find out what really turns you on—and excites your spouse
• Recover from past infidelities
• Create an erotic, romantic relationship

Ready for a more vibrant, connected, and sexually satisfying marriage? Then start reading!

Check it out here!

Oh, Those Oral Book Reports...School Is Upon Us Again

Get it via Amazon for your Kindle.

School is starting soon or has already started.  

Check out Sexy Challenge's version of an oral book report! Woo Hoo!