Laughing At Yourself

Laughing at yourself is hard enough!  However, laughing at yourself in a relationship or intimate situation is even more difficult.  We all view things through our own eyes.  So if your trying to be sexy and you trip coming to bed, it could seem funny to your partner but to you it might ruin the mood.  Another great example is all those Kama Sutra positions, trying to get into those can be quite funny.  Laughter might happen and it might offend one partner.  

Here is my answer, get over it.  A relationship that has free flowing laughter on all sides is one that is fun to be in.  It is my opinion that laugher is one of the most amazing foreplay tools we can use.  There is something special about laugher that ties it closely to orgasm.  So they next time your partner laughs during intimacy instead of being offended go with it.  Play up on the laughter and just watch how hot your intimacy becomes.  This intimate laugher will even carry over and you make mentions about the situation later on.  

Now go have a Ball!!!

Sexy Challenge's Having a Ball With Sex is a great tool to help with your laugher in the bedroom

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In honor of their second year of their book award contest, Authors Talk About It is giving away this amazing Fire HD 10" Tablet.  No purchase is necessary.  It is a way they are saying thank you to everyone for supporting the contest and the authors that have been in the contest.  

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Meeting Online - Loving Off Line

So many couples are meeting and getting to know each other online now a days!  Is this having an impact once they take the leap to get into an actual relationship.  Some people are having issues blending in real life.  The control you have when you are online sharing information about yourself and discussing important issues is one thing but when you are actually together you also have body language, facial expressions, and sarcasm to deal with.  Many people find out that the person they met online is very much different in person.  Shattering their illusion of what that persons vision in their cyber version.  My suggestion is to be totally honest when you meet someone online that way it isn't a surprise when you actually start to interact in real life and they see your at your true self.  

Another important factor is to not stop interacting with each other via cyber space. Still text each other, send emails, message and post to each other.  That keeps the flame still burning with excitement from your days of only speaking to each other online.  

Become a Vampire This Weekend With Your Lover

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Win a Fire HD Tablet form Our Friends At Authors Talk About It

Authors Talk About It is giving away at Fire HD 10" Tablet

In honor of their second year of their book award contest, Authors Talk About It is giving away this amazing Fire HD 10" Tablet.  No purchase is necessary.  It is a way they are saying thank you to everyone for supporting the contest and the authors that have been in the contest.  

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Spread Some Smiles

Smiles go a long way making this world a better place.   Make sure you do your part to pass along as many smiles as you receive.  

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Communication is The Key

Communication in your relationship might seem to some like the game Boggle.  Where all the words are shaken up and you are trying to piece them together.  This is not uncommon in many relationships.  Communication is often the spot where a relationship breaks down and take a turn for the good or bad.  Communication can get better the longer you are together, it doesn't have to get worse.  You just have to find and understand the best way each of you communicate.  Don't expect your partner to communicate in the way you do.  Blend both your communication styles into one that works for your relationship.  

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Famous Star Wars Quotes

Chewbacca, is one of my favorite characters from Star Wars.  However, he hardly ever gets props for his quotes and wisdom.  Everyone is always quoting Yoda, Darth Vader, or even Stormtroopers.  Let's give Chewbacca his day in the sun and share this amazing quote.  Such passion such wisdom from the big Wookie. 

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The Mystery of Veils

A thin layer of material or a veil can add just enough of a hint of mystery to make things even more sexy during those intimate moments.   A see through veil like the one above while not covering much can also mask the totally perception of what is behind the veil and add the illusion of mystery.  For those uncomfortable with being naked a veil can often help create the sexy environment the both partners want but still keep either partner from feeling uncomfortable.  So keep some veils around your home they can change the perceptions and comfort level deepening on your mood.  

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Keep Valentines Day Rolling All Year Long

Happy Valentines Day

My hope is that you don't just celebrate your love on Valentines Day!  Your love should be celebrated daily.  I know that can seem a little strange to some of you.  Taking just a few moments each day to appreciate the love in your life and to express it to your partner can keep Valentines Day rolling all year long.  So today go overboard with your expressions of love, but going forward put a little Valentines Day into each and every day!

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Sharing my love today with the most amazing woman on the planet.  Janelle, is my wife, my partner, my best friend, my goofy buddy and my world.  Love you Baby!

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Put some Mediation into your love life on this Valentines Day and enjoy the power and connection it allows you to experience  

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Will It Blend???

One of the most amazing campaigns ever were for "Will It Blend"  The objective was to advertise their blenders by putting things in them you never would put in a blender.  These videos got rave reviews and a cult following and also helped sell a lot of blenders.  Watch this issue and see how they Glow Sticks work in a blender.  

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Are you Ready to Live a Life of Freedom?

In July of 2015 I had the good fortune of leaving my corporate job and beginning a life of freedom  with my best friend, partner and wife.  Did I hit the lottery?  Well that would have made it a little easier but no that is not what happened.  We had been kicking the idea around for years but always found things to stop or or to put it off for the future.  However, something happened that year, and we set a date to achieve this feat.  With that date on the wall everyday we grew closer to that moment and when if finally happened it was so freeing.  We have been on this journey of travel and adventure for a year and a half now.  Sure it was and is difficult at times, but there are so many amazing things that go along with it.  

What I want for you is to have the opportunity, also.  To take your shot to put that date on your wall and to feel the power it gives you.  

We have constructed a a free class to help you achieve this goal and want to just give it to you!  Why?  Because we have an obligation to pass along this information so maybe you start your journey a year earlier or 5 years, or maybe even 10 years early.  That way you get to enjoy this freedom for more of the time in your life.  

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Bobsled Fantasies

Bobsledders are they just kids that never grew up, or it it more of an rush for speed.  I don't know how many times as a child I pictured my plastic sled as being a state of the art bobsled cursing down the course.  Now when I sled my only goad is not to get hurt. 

This is more of what I get now when I go sledding,

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By creating simple yet powerful simple notes, we can change the world.  Create more love, more happiness and more smiles.  We are looking for an army of Happiness Notes people to hand out as many happiness notes as we can in our world.  

Let's brighten up as many peoples lives as we can.  Together we can create a world that is full more love

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French Kissing Tips, If you Need Them

Here are some French Kissing Tips if you need them.  Remember however that every person is different and that our likes and dislikes are very different.  So there is not one end all be all specific method to amazing kissing.  Take what you like from this video and try it out if you don't like it ditch it.  The best thing this video gives is some suggestions to try out. 

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